I always swore to myself I'd never turn Eloise into my own personal diary, but sometimes things happen in life that you feel obligated to share with others. Not to receive attention of any kind, but to let other people know perhaps what they are experiencing, I'm experiencing too.
Something I've been wondering lately is, why is it that {some} guys always want to be in control? They never want to admit that they might actually like someone. They must always be more macho and strong compared to the weak, emotionally-unstable women. God forbid someone finds out they have real feelings for a girl.
Why assume just because a girl and a guy had a conversation that she is IN LOVE with him, and obviously desperate for a relationship? Why lie and tell others she asked for his phone number, desperately, when it was actually the other way around?
All I'm wondering is... why do young men assume all young women are desperate?
Much like Emma Stone declared {what many girls were asking themselves} in Easy A, why is my life not an 80's movie?
But what can a girl do, dealing with "men" like this? It's hard to go on hoping there is something better out there. Still, me being "a dreamer" I suppose, will continue watching romantic movies, listening to cute songs, and looking at beautiful, romantic photos, wishing and hoping of a better outcome with more mature and (this being Eloise, preferably British) men.
Can you tell I've been watching a lot of Sex and the City?
Sorry for the personal spillage here, it won't happen often.
Happy Monday,
Raquel x
Beautiful post. x hivenn
ReplyDeleteSo true Raquel! Boys are just D-U-M-B.Dumb. I too often wish my life were an 80's movie. I do believe there is someone out there made perfect for each of us. It just takes a little digging and searching to find him! :)
ReplyDeleteYou know, I felt this way too. I wanted a guy to notice me and come after me...I felt like they only ever did the opposite.
ReplyDeleteSeven months ago, he found me. And I've been whirling in what feels like an 80s movie ever since.
If you dream him up, he is out there. I promise.